When we want to get our ex back, we all tend to
think the same kind of things. We've got to promise them we'll change,
we've got to do some fast talking, we've got to apologize fifty times.
One powerful method to get your ex back though, is to listen, not do all
the talking. Most likely, your ex broke up with you because you wronged
them in some way. Maybe you were too needy or too jealous.
As time went on, because of whatever you did, your ex's heart began to
fill up with negative emotions towards you. That's why they dumped you.
Their heart is now full of these bad feelings.
To get them back, you've got to help them to replace the negative
emotions with positive ones. You've got to help them to release and
resolve the negative feelings.
There is actually a powerful way to help them do this. Get them to vent.
Help them to get those bad feelings off their chest. Once they've done
this, they will start to feel better.
Letting them get things off their chest is a powerful way to help them
to let go of all the bad feelings stored up in their heart. Yes, you
will need to apologize. But get them to vent first.
Ask them how they feel about what you did. Then shut up and listen.
Don't argue or defend yourself. Let them blow off steam. Let them dump
their frustrations all over you. Focus on making them feel heard and
understood. Keep asking them to tell you more until they are done. Let
them do all the talking, you just listen.
If you can do this a few times and really get them to vent, you will be
much better off. They may release enough negative feelings to have room
to consider taking you back.
Getting Your Ex Back Action Steps:
Write out how you'd ask your ex
to open up and talk about their feelings.
Call and try it out!
There is obviously a ton more to this, but learning some proven steps can make a big difference in
getting your ex back fast. It can help you get them back in hours
instead of waiting months and hoping they will get over it eventually!
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